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What's The Point Of Family If They Exploit You

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Blood is thicker than water, but what if that blood demands constant sacrifice? Family is supposed to be your foundation for growth. The people who are always there for you, who lift you up, and support you. They are the ones who celebrate your wins, lend a shoulder when you are down, and pick you up when you can’t bring yourself to do it on your own.  But when the very people meant to be your anchor push you down until you’re barely afloat, are they still your family? Family always comes first. It is an unspoken emotion that is etched into our minds. But when it becomes a rule that you need to follow, that is when you realize that you have stopped becoming a person for them. You are no longer an individual or a family member to them.  You’re just someone they can constantly exploit.  It’s not about what they’re doing for you, or about working together as a synchronized unit. No, you’re just someone, a catalyst that can make them grow.  The exploitation and manipulat...

What’s The Point Of...Paying to Stay Employed?

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 We study, we stress, we sacrifice our leisure time to focus on building a future. We spent thousands to get a degree from reputed institutions just so we can be employable. Often, we migrate, adapt, and assimilate , all for a better opportunity, and all for the future we want to build for us and our family.  And then one fine day, you discover that you now have to pay to stay employed.  It isn’t a hiring fee, nor for a promotion, but just to allow you to stay in a country you don’t belong to.  It hits you like a gut punch, realizing that you invested time and money into building something that turned out to be a sand castle in a storm of politics.  You realize that all this time, when you thought you had made something of yourself, built all that confidence and worth, only to now be told you are not allowed to dream. That very moment takes your power away.  You were a big fish in a shallow pool, and now you are being told to go swim in a pool where you ca...