It just so happens that you are minding your own business when the people around you suddenly get into an argument. The argument finally dies down, and the person you know needs consoling or venting. Here's how you can handle the situation and calm down someone when they are angry or upset. 1) Just listen The person just wants to vent. The best thing to do in this case is to keep your words limited and simply listen without interruption. 2) Make Eye Contact The person could be giving their side of the story, and if they see you looking elsewhere, they might assume that you don't agree with them. So make sure you keep eye contact with the person you're trying to console. 3) Offer comfort if the person is upset A tap on the hand or a pat on the back can show that you care. If the person is too distraught, you can try giving them a hug, but don't force it. 4) Be understanding Positive affirmations can go a long way in calming down a person. Tell them you understand what ...